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With Healthy Families First [WHFF] Broadcast and Media Launch

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With Healthy Families First [WHFF] Broadcast and Media Launch

Response Post: Fathers as Narcissistic Abusers

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Response Post: Fathers as Narcissistic Abusers ABOUT A FATHER: This is a response to the Al Saddiq post on our official  Facebook   page.     So, just as a professional author and memoir person, we do more documentaries and publish them online with whff.tv. I must try and only make one point at a time instead of three or four points in a post. Therefore, let me just address something from the Facebook post. And that is: first, during the marriage is when I had two suicide attempts.   With characters like 1) lacking empathy 2) requiring excessive admiration 3) emphasis on envy, interpersonally exploitative behavior, 4) senses of entitlement, 5) behaving in an arrogant manner, 6) grandiose, 7) expecting special treatment and constant 8) attention-seeking: I cannot be in a healthy space.  Wont be in a healthy space. Moreover,  I can in no way imagine someone already addressing mental and emotional upbringing PRESENTL...

Un-Ideal Parenting Podcast How Liars Create the Illusion of Truth During Family Court Season 1, Episode 9 • 19m

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Un-Ideal Parenting Podcast How Liars Create the Illusion of Truth During Family Court Season 1, Episode 9 • 19m

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

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LEGAL DISCLAIMER By WHFF LEGAL DISCLAIMER February 22, 2024 These talks and accounts are memoirs. It reflects the author’s -AUTHOR presented as "Dr. Rachel Levitch" presents recollections of experiences over time. Some names and characteristics have been changed, some events have been compressed, and some dialogue has been recreated.  Writings depicts actual events in the life of the author -myself as Dr. Leitch- as truthfully as recollection permits and/or can be verified by research. Occasionally, dialogue consistent with the character or nature of the person speaking has been supplemented. All persons within are actual individuals; there are no composite characters. The names of some individuals have been changed to respect their privacy. These writings are all represented as moments and depictions of my autobiography. It reflects the author's memories of their current experiences through time. Some names and features have been changed – so...

The Disclaimer

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The Disclaimer The Disclaimer updated:  as of Janurary 18, 2024 These writings are all represented as moments and depictions of my autobiography. It reflects the author's memories of their current experiences through time. Some names and features have been changed – sometimes- and other times not, some events have been summarized, and some dialogue has been recreated. These writings are all represented as moments and depictions of my autobiography. It reflects the author's memories of their current experiences through time. Some names and features have been changed – sometimes- and other times not, some events have been summarized, and some dialogue has been recreated The texts describe actual events in the life of the author – myself, Dr. Levitch – and are as true as memory permits and/or can be verified through research. In some cases, lines of dialogue have been added to reflect the personality or nature of the person speaking. All characters ...

Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-3?

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Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-3?  Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ? Let me just address this separately because it really doesn't go with Part 1 or Part 2 of the post. I want to make one point at a time. So for those of you who are following and really care about the process here is the point I wanted to make as a side note in PART I & PART II : Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ? - Walk away! I decided - and have never regretted - to walk away. My mental health - not walking away from my children - but for any reason he had to see me, impact my mental state, or manipulate further truth. - And those that watch are his flying monkeys that have invested their time and emotions into my history and his past - so they'll do anything to disprove me. Not because they know I am right, but they've invested time and effort in believing.  They invested emotional support, what they call 'pra...

Facebook Post: Toxic Ties

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Facebook Post: Toxic Ties  

Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-2?

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Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-2? PART THREE My biological children will probably never remember things like golf lessons, tennis tournaments, and the support we received after the spousal split. Those memories are long gone and erased. Emotional abuse and children's feeling that they we're abandoned cause irrefutable damage.... but more about that later. I remember working with NASA and my Rabbi who told me that I would lose EVERYTHING!!!! And in that lifetime, I would agree - you lose your kids -- you've pretty much lost it all [or so i though] And here is my research on traumatized children after a divorce: There was, however, this law firm that said: when you must give over custody of your children: what's in their best interest. My children’s best interest remained in decision making process. When you are dealing with convoluted situations; and your mental health has eroded, visitation and family events are just e...

Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-1?

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Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-1?   Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ? PART TWO WALK AWAY! I decided - and have never regretted - to walk away. My mental health - not walking away from my children - but for any reason he had to see me, impact my mental state, or manipulate further truth. - And those that watch are his flying monkeys that have invested there on time and emotions into my history and his past - so they'll do anything to disprove me. Not because they know I am right, but they've invested time and effort in believing that he is not a cruel person, and he is worth his ‘word’.  I knew that it was going to take time to expose where 1) the trauma was coming from and 2) where the trauma was landing.  But – this ain’t the same old gal folk was used to destroying with just a strong disapproving look of their eye. In the comments of a family Texas judge when busy bodies showed up to my divorce: " THAT...

Episode 5: When Parenting Advice Is Not Enough

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Episode 5: When Parenting Advice Is Not Enough When Parenting Advice Is Not Enough Series Episode 5 @WHFF Parents really need help doing it right.  And just as you thought that statement was confusing: legislators have decided to chime in PER STATE.  Meaning the privacy of your home isn't what it used to be: there are regulations and stipulations. With the new impact in legislation your family cannot afford to get it wrong. - Topple that with the ideal "American" parent.  The self-governing "in everyone's perspective" you have to be perfect.  and imperfection means "you're doing it wrong."  With the anxiety of being the perfect American parent comes insecurities, hidden traumatic events, products to buy, behavioral health services, and the recurring theme that you're just not enough.  Sources: Learn tools of great mental healh in an instant of a moment as it floods in and out of your thought process.  How then ca...