Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ-1?

 Toxic Ties:

Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ?



PART TWO


WALK AWAY! I decided - and have never regretted - to walk away. My mental health - not walking away from my children - but for any reason he had to see me, impact my mental state, or manipulate further truth. - And those that watch are his flying monkeys that have invested there on time and emotions into my history and his past - so they'll do anything to disprove me. Not because they know I am right, but they've invested time and effort in believing that he is not a cruel person, and he is worth his ‘word’.  I knew that it was going to take time to expose where 1) the trauma was coming from and 2) where the trauma was landing. 

But – this ain’t the same old gal folk was used to destroying with just a strong disapproving look of their eye. In the comments of a family Texas judge when busy bodies showed up to my divorce: "THAT'S WHAT YOU GET FOR STICKING YOUR NOSE IN SOMEONE ELSE’S MARRIAGE." And they we’re fined by the court. Thank you!

In my case I was simply exhausted from the abuse. Tired of being someone's bad guy. Tired of being labeled and judged.  Tired of manipulation and gaslight.  And after two suicide attempts that he was able to manipulate my healthcare and make it about him.  This ‘hero syndrome’…. Are you crazy?  I had to decide to stop allowing that ‘creature’ to - hide behind my diagnoses, manipulate my resources, my disability, and my monthly finances to profit whatever: period.

Notwithstanding my motivation here is the first part from a well guided Texas legal website:

“Yes, it is possible to voluntarily relinquish parental rights in Texas. However, it is a complex legal process that requires filing a lawsuit and proving the necessary requirements under the Texas Family Code Chapter 161.”


Let’s just stay right there!!

Why in the world would everyone use me as a scapegoat? It has to do with a person [meaning myself at the time] training others in my life how to treat me.  Not having a successful self-esteem and healthy environment of love and support causes so much internal drama and conflict.  For the purposes of this excerpt: people use you – i.e. me- to better themselves by pushing you down: to be controlled. 

Now; Let’s move forward!!!

Work on Building Your Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence. Low self-esteem and self-confidence can make you an easy target for scapegoating. Before, I was a quiet and shy person. I found out that my lack of confidence allowed my family members to project their insecurities onto me.


So, here's the plan: I am posting a press release here for the upcoming Toxic series presented on WHFF.tv. I want to touch on a couple of conversations, but we have got to go through committee, legal and therapeutic guides to ensure "helpfulness" not vengeance is what we are presenting. I will leave you with a thought of understanding: when you've been abused anger is always the go-to because you aren't healed enough for indifference. Those with small minds only see what is great for gossip, tearing the victim down and in a place of judgmental expose. It's really their own place of hurt of what They’ve been through. 

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