Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ? Let me just address this separately because it really doesn't go with Part 1 or Part 2 of the post. I want to make one point at a time. So for those of you who are following and really care about the process here is the point I wanted to make as a side note in PART I & PART II : Toxic Ties: Did You Remember You Were A Golf Champ? - Walk away! I decided - and have never regretted - to walk away. My mental health - not walking away from my children - but for any reason he had to see me, impact my mental state, or manipulate further truth. - And those that watch are his flying monkeys that have invested their time and emotions into my history and his past - so they'll do anything to disprove me. Not because they know I am right, but they've invested time and effort in believing. They invested emotional support, what they call 'prayer' and ultmately noone wants to believe they've been played the fool. Al
LEGAL DISCLAIMER February 22, 2024 These talks and accounts are memoirs. It reflects the author’s -AUTHOR presented as "Dr. Rachel Levitch" presents recollections of experiences over time. Some names and characteristics have been changed, some events have been compressed, and some dialogue has been recreated. Writings depicts actual events in the life of the author -myself as Dr. Leitch- as truthfully as recollection permits and/or can be verified by research. Occasionally, dialogue consistent with the character or nature of the person speaking has been supplemented. All persons within are actual individuals; there are no composite characters. The names of some individuals have been changed to respect their privacy. These writings are all represented as moments and depictions of my autobiography. It reflects the author's memories of their current experiences through time. Some names and features have been changed – sometimes- and other times not, some events have been su
PART THREE My biological children will probably never remember things like golf lessons, tennis tournaments, and the support we received after the spousal split. Those memories are long gone and erased. Emotional abuse and children's feeling that they we're abandoned cause irrefutable damage.... but more about that later. I remember working with NASA and my Rabbi who told me that I would lose EVERYTHING!!!! And in that lifetime, I would agree - you lose your kids -- you've pretty much lost it all [or so i though] And here is my research on traumatized children after a divorce: There was, however, this law firm that said: when you must give over custody of your children: what's in their best interest. My children’s best interest remained in decision making process. When you are dealing with convoluted situations; and your mental health has eroded, visitation and family events are just episodes used to torture you. They are good at it: and you - the noncustodial parent
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